Law of Attraction - Confidence

Have you ever wondered why some people could ace the interview they always wanted or attracted more people to them than you can ever imagined?

One of the most basic law of attraction is confidence. Well, face it, by having confidence will enable you to attract more people to you than you can imagine. Confidence is sexy by nature and it is the key to attracting people into and good things into your life!

But the magic question is this, how does one exude confidence? I know you might be like, hey, I am not the most confident person out there and there are no way that I am going to be confident. I simply don't know how to go about my daily business being a confident person!

And here's the thing, I am one of the person with the least confidence around before. I vividly remembered during my younger days, I didn't even dare to approach my crush for a date and now I am a loving husband to a beautiful wife with a happy little kid. I also remember the days when I went for singing auditions and I had trouble to sound natural simply because I was experiencing stage fright and I was not able to sing in front of the few judges, but to move on, I gave speech and training to tens and hundreds during my professional course of work.

And how do I do it? Practice is the only answer in life my friend. There are no skills nor trade in this world that cannot be improved by more practice. You don't become Michael Phelps nor Michael Jordan overnight. It takes decade of training to gain a particularly skill, more soif you are terrible at something initially. You cannot magically gained confidence overnight unless some random confident soul take over your body! I read books like The New Secrets of Charisma, I attended public speeches and singing classes and even got myself a certificate in contemporary singing. All these tasking were no easy feat for me initially, it took me literally years to gain confidence to where I am today. Some people are naturally born confident leaders, some takes a little bit of brushing up and hey, it's never easy to be better at what you originally sucks in.

So the next big question that you may ask is, why do I need confidence for? I am living my life well now!

I am so happy that you are celebrating your life despite you felt lacking in the confidence department. Confidence is the little hack for your everyday life. Ever wonder why that poor fat guy that get the ladies? Ever wonder why your co-worker who looked so nice yet performed like a dork get his/her promotion and here you are, the ol' hardworking fella/lady wondering what the heck is going on. Ever wonder why it takes so many interviews for you to land that one basic position that you had ever asked for?

There is no wrong in contentment of what you have. It is truly an art to be contented with what you have as I always believed that human greed has no limits. By self-limiting greed, you have probably transcend what most people cannot achieve. I too admit that I always wanted more in life. I always wanted to try to provide something a little better for my family and friends. I wanted to achieve more than I ever have or I ever will be and that is one of the core reason I went forth to try to understand how to be a more charismatic person, how to be a person that is oozing confidence (which I doubt I am yet). It will definitely takes me more practice and time for me to reach my ultimate destination.

Do not doubt, the added confidence will provide the added advantage that you had never think off. Practice to be confident today! It will serve you well in your personal and work life in more ways than you can imagine! (I leave it to you how you imagine things!)

Do you agree with me that confidence is important in an individual's personal and professional life? I will love to hear your views and comment!

Be Better Everyday,

Leo